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Young Men Standards

Adherence to these standards will be enforced; participants will not be able to check in at the program if they are not appropriately dressed and groomed.

Boy Examples

Checked BoxClean shaven—no facial hair of any kind; sideburns must not extend below the ear lobes or onto the cheek

Checked BoxConservative Hair Style—hair must be trimmed above the collar; ears and eyes must be visible; no ponytails, pigtails, braids, designs, carvings (including Mohawks) or completely shaved heads; no unnatural hair color. Tucking the hair behind the ears or hiding it under a hat does not meet these expectations.

Checked BoxClothing—avoid being sloppy or inappropriately casual; no baggy/saggy pants; pants must be worn at the waist; no underwear should be visible. Unacceptable clothing includes shorts that do not extend to the knee, tight clothing, shirts without sleeves, or other revealing attire; words on clothing must not be offensive or suggestive; appropriate footwear should be worn at all times; footwear should be appropriate for the activity (i.e. Sunday attire should not appear as though we are on our way to the beach or an athletic activity). Faddish clothing (i.e. Gothic, Emo, etc.) is not appropriate. No piercings of any kind. Hats are not to be worn indoors.

Young Men Dress & Appearance Good Examples

Casual Dress Clothing

Boys in Casual Dress

The following items of clothing are considered appropriate for casual dress: Blues jeans, blue jean jackets, cargo-style pants, tennis shoes, hiking or work boots, flip-flops, casual T-shirts, and brightly colored clothing.

Adherence to these standards will be enforced; participants will not be able to check-in at the program if they are not appropriately dressed and groomed.

** BYU–Idaho's official policy does not permit bib overalls (all styles), flip-flops, and shorts (or capris for girls) of any length on their campus. **



Boys in Sunday Dress

Sunday Dress Clothing

A white collared dress shirt that buttons down the front (shirttails should always be tucked in), a conservative tie, and suit pants or dress slacks with dress shoes should be worn.

Young Women Standards

Checked BoxConservative Hair Styles—hairstyles should be clean and neat with no extreme styles or unnatural colors

Checked BoxClothing—skirts, dresses, or shorts must extend at least to the knee and shirts and tops must cover the stomach and back; clothing should cover the shoulders; clothing that is low-cut in the front or back, tight, or revealing in any other manner is unacceptable. "Leggings" are not considered appropriate for "Sunday or Best Dress" at EFY. Please also be aware that the wearing of "leggings" does not allow for any exceptions to the Especially for Youth Dress and Appearance policy. Footwear should be appropriate for the activity (i.e. Sunday attire should not appear as though we are on our way to the beach or an athletic activity). Faddish clothing (i.e. Gothic, Emo, etc.) is not appropriate. Only one pair of earrings in your ears; no other body piercing. Hats are not to be worn indoors.

Adherence to these standards will be enforced; participants will not be able to check in at the program if they are not appropriately dressed and groomed.

Girl Examples

Young Women Dress & Appearance Good Examples

Girls in Casual Dress

Casual Dress Clothing

The following items of clothing are considered appropriate for casual dress: Blues jeans, blue jean jackets, cargo-style pants, tennis shoes, hiking or work boots, flip-flops, causal T-shirts, and brightly colored clothing.

Adherence to these standards will be enforced; participants will not be able to check-in at the program if they are not appropriately dressed and groomed.

** BYU–Idaho's official policy does not permit bib overalls (all styles), flip-flops, and shorts (or capris) of any length on their campus. Denim or Levi–style skirts (which are not overly faded or grubby looking) should be considered casual dress. **


Girls in Church Dress

Sunday Dress Clothing

Blouses must be modest in fit, extend below the waistline, and be long enough to cover the stomach and lower back, especially when bending over or raising hands or arms. If blouses do not meet the approved length, undershirts must be worn to assure modesty. Sleeves must cover the shoulders.

Dresses and skirts must be knee length or longer. Slits in dresses and skirts must not extend above the knee. Dresses with spaghetti straps are not permitted unless a shirt or blouse is worn underneath

General Standards

Boys and Girl

Especially for Youth Program EXPECTATIONS

The following is the Especially for Youth Program's interpretation of dress and appearance standards as found in the For the Strength of Youth booklet and words of our prophets and apostles. Adherence to these standards will be enforced; participants will not be able to check in at the program if they are not appropriately dressed and groomed.

Girls in standard

Modesty Defined

"Modesty is an attitude of humility and decency in dress, grooming, language, and behavior. If you are modest, you do not draw undue attention to yourself. Instead, you seek to glorify God in your body, and in your spirit." (True to the Faith [2004], 106)


Dress and Appearance

Girls in Dress and Appearance Standards

"How truly beautiful is a well-groomed young woman who is clean in body and mind. She is a daughter of God in whom her Eternal Father can take pride. How handsome is a young man who is well groomed. He is a son of God worthy of holding the priesthood of God." (President Gordon B. Hinckley, A Prophet's Counsel and Prayer for Youth, Ensign, Jan 2001, 8)

More Than Just a Covering

"I do not hesitate to say that you can be attractive without being immodest. You can be refreshing and buoyant and beautiful in your dress and behavior. Your appeal to others will come of your personality, which is the sum of your individual characteristics." (President Gordon B. Hinckley, Stay on the High Road, Ensign, May 2004, 114)


Boy and Two Girls

"The way you dress is a reflection of what you are on the inside. Your dress and grooming send messages about you to others and influence the way you and others act." (For the Strength of Youth, 16). The way you dress and groom yourself will influence the way others react to you and treat you. The unspoken language of your appearance is often the first thing others hear about you and you only get one chance for a first impression.


"Your body is God's sacred creation. Respect it as a gift from God, and do not defile it in any way. Through your dress and appearance, you can show the Lord that you know how precious your body is. You can show that you are a disciple of Jesus Christ." (For the Strength of Youth, [2001], 14-16)

Video Topics
  • Unity
  • What is Modesty?
  • Modesty Shows Commitment
  • Modesty Shows Respect
  • Modesty is an Attitude
  • Modesty - Just Do It!
  • Impressions
  • Continual Respect
  • Modesty is Important
  • Modesty Attracts the Spirit

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